The Top Five Tools For Impact Play

Roll down those trousers, guys! You’re in for a real treat.

Impact play is a more extreme form of spanking; an intense pounding that is often done with the intent to cause deep tissue bruising and leave markings. Not only does it increase blood flow to the area in question, thereby making it more sensitive, it stimulates the nerve endings and releases waves of pleasurable endorphins. Due to its recent popularity, there are plenty of specialised implements available including; floggers, whips, rods, switches, and canes to keep you busy! Continue reading

A Beginners Guide To Medical Play

Most of us engaged in some form of ‘doctors and nurses’ during childhood, and it can be just as much fun in the bedroom! Medical play explore the dynamics of pleasure and pain, and can include role-play, bondage, edge play, cock and ball torture, and more. What’s not to love? Continue reading

A Beginners Guide To Breath Play

Breath play is a highly controversial form of edge play that involves the restriction of oxygen to increase erotic play or to intensify a sexual experience. This can be done solo (autoerotic asphyxiation) or through partner play. As with all forms of edge play, breath play carries higher risks than other forms of BDSM such as flogging or pony play. For this reason, it tends to divide the kink community; some say the risk is part of the appeal and it encourages safe practice, other say the benefits just don’t outweigh the risks. Continue reading

Kinkspiration – Offering You Sex Advice

Are you lacking a little imagination lately? Need a kinky clue?

Looking to try your hand at anal play? Then you’ve come to the right place! Anal fingering is a great way for beginners to experience anal play gradually and gently. We all know that men have a prostrate, which feels incredible when stimulated, but there’s more to anal play than just that. The anus is also packed with nerve ending that are receptive to stimulation and can result in anal orgasms for both men and women. Continue reading

Are Watersports For You?

To pee or not to pee? That is the question!

Urolagnia is a paraphilia in which people are sexually arouse by urine – it can be both a casual sensation involving feeling and tasting urine or it can be part of much more involved desires. In scientific circles, it can also be called urophagia, urolagnia, renifleurism, undinism, and ondinisme. In non-scientific circles, it is more popularly called water sports, golden showers, and piss play. Continue reading

A Guide To Suspension Bondage

Suspension Bondage is often avoided and considered off-limits due to the higher risk it carries than other forms of sexual bondage. It is a highly technical topic but if you and your partner learn the ropes and play within your abilities, you are guaranteed to have a lot of fun. Suspension bondage not only sets up a superb scene, but it also looks and feels incredible. So, if you revel in restraint, here’s the basics to get you started. Continue reading

The Most Popular Fetishes of 2016!

Fetishes are defined as a strong need or desire for an object, body part, or activity. These kinks are things that enhance one’s sexual experience, but aren’t a necessity in order to reach a state of sexual satisfaction. The communities that come under this definition are varied and diverse. Thanks to the increasingly popular Fifty Shades of Grey, many have hopped on the BDSM bandwagon this year with dreams of creating their very own Red Room. So, what were some of the kinkiest fetishes people enjoyed in 2016? Continue reading