A Beginner’s Guide To Gags

A gag is specifically designed to muffle the submissive during BDSM play. Although there are many different types of gags, ball gags are by far the most popular. They have featured in numerous fetish scenes and films, becoming a staple of BDSM. Ball gags can be intimidating at first, but after trying it out many couples find it adds an exciting edge to their dom and sub play. Continue reading

A Beginners Guide To Medical Play

Most of us engaged in some form of ‘doctors and nurses’ during childhood, and it can be just as much fun in the bedroom! Medical play explore the dynamics of pleasure and pain, and can include role-play, bondage, edge play, cock and ball torture, and more. What’s not to love? Continue reading

Kinkspiration – Offering You Sex Advice

Are you lacking a little imagination lately? Need a kinky clue?

Looking to try your hand at anal play? Then you’ve come to the right place! Anal fingering is a great way for beginners to experience anal play gradually and gently. We all know that men have a prostrate, which feels incredible when stimulated, but there’s more to anal play than just that. The anus is also packed with nerve ending that are receptive to stimulation and can result in anal orgasms for both men and women. Continue reading

A Guide To Spanking!

It’s easy to see why spanking has become such a hit. It can take you on a journey of sensations from warm and gentle, to thrilling spikes of pleasure and orgasmic release. Spanking can seem a little daunting at first, but with the right technique and practice, it can create the sexual intensity that you and your partner crave. Not only does it increase the blood flow to the nearby genitals and causes a spike in adrenaline, it stimulates the nerve endings, increases sexual arousal and is guaranteed to shake up your sex life. So, what are you waiting for?! Continue reading

Nipple Play – A Guide

Although men have been paying special attention to breasts for years, very few know how to pleasure them to their full potential. Nipples are often an overlooked source of pleasure that, when done correctly, can lead to sensational orgasms. Research shows that nipple stimulation is processed in the same region of the brain as when stimulating the vagina and clitoris – making it part of the holy trinity of female pleasure. The research, which was published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, Vol. 8, concluded that “…women’s brains seem to process nipple and genital stimulation in the same way. In light of this, it is not at all surprising that many women are aroused by having their nipples touched and that, for some, this may be enough to lead to orgasm.” Continue reading

Five Kinky Tips For Spanking

Ever since the book ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ came out, we have had a number of emails asking us about spanking. As it is not something we are all taught about when we are given the ‘facts of life’ conversation, it can actually be a little confusing for people. Yes it is seen in Grey, but anyone with at least a little common sense will realise that isn’t a true representation of the BDSM genre. Continue reading