Five Reasons You Should Try Prostate Play

Put off by prostate massage? Well, you’re not alone…

The prostate is a walnut sized, semen-storing gland located at the root of the penis. The P-spot, also sometimes known as the male G-spot, is the area of the prostate that can be felt and stimulated. Research suggests that regular prostate massage reduces the risk of prostatitis, prostate cancer, symptoms of erectile dysfunction, and genital pain. Continue reading

Long Distance Kink – Is it Possible?

Long-distance relationships are still relationships that require a different approach to develop the same connection and intimacy. Thanks to technology like Skype, Facetime and WhatsApp, long-distance BDSM play is entirely possible and can be very enjoyable! But like any long-distance relationship, a strong foundation needs to be established first.

After all, small problems can fester and later become big problems. So, if you can nip them in the bud early on, you have a much better chance in your long-distance romance.
In a long-distance BDSM relationship, the following concerns should be addressed as soon as possible: Continue reading

A Beginner’s Guide To Limits

“Limits” refers to an acceptable range of play for an individual, and is something that should be discussed when negotiating a scene. It ensures that all the rights, needs, and requirements are clearly understood. Some decide to write down their limits in the shape of a contract, which assures that both partners fully understand the limitations and acceptable forms of play. Others prefer to simply discuss and plan the scene in detail beforehand. Before entering into any relationship, it is important to clearly communicate and listen to each other carefully. Continue reading

The Top Five Tools For Impact Play

Roll down those trousers, guys! You’re in for a real treat.

Impact play is a more extreme form of spanking; an intense pounding that is often done with the intent to cause deep tissue bruising and leave markings. Not only does it increase blood flow to the area in question, thereby making it more sensitive, it stimulates the nerve endings and releases waves of pleasurable endorphins. Due to its recent popularity, there are plenty of specialised implements available including; floggers, whips, rods, switches, and canes to keep you busy! Continue reading

A Look at Advanced Domination

BDSM is a grouping of two different things that are often but not always combined; sensation play and power dynamics. If someone is getting off on the feeling of being restrained and spanked, that’s sensation play. If they get excited at the thought of being overpowered and disciplined, that’s the power dynamic. Domination can be a combination of both, depending on what you and your partner enjoy. Communicate your desires and encourage your partner to do the same, this will help you both understand what you want from the experience. Continue reading

BDSM Essentials – Your Official Guide

When people talk about BDSM they often talk about the pain that people go through. Those who don’t know much about it assume it is just lots of pain and no pleasure. That isn’t the case, but they become so fixated on these things that they don’t realise there is a lot more to BDSM than whips and chains. Continue reading

Five Reasons To Try Restraints

Not easily roped into bondage? Knot sure how you feel about being tied down?

Bondage can be kinky, fun, and a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. The act of restraining your partner can offer new physical experiences and an intensified emotional connection – and this is just the tip of the iceberg! See what we mean; you won’t be able to restrain yourself… Continue reading

A Beginner’s Guide To Bondage Collars

So, you’ve decided you want to keep your submissive on a tight leash?

Collars are a visual symbol of submission and control, and are often worn in the bedroom by submissive partners to indicate their position. Collars can also be practical, they typically feature rings for attaching either leads, or other restraints. When fastened to other furniture/equipment, it keeps subs in place for whatever pleasing or teasing is thrown their way. Continue reading

A Guide To BDSM Aftercare

All scenes, no matter what the focus is, should include responsible aftercare. Once a BDSM play scene has ended, it hasn’t really ended – the intimate and emotional connections will still be there, and so aftercare is important for everyone involved. Aftercare doesn’t need to be overly sentimental or grand, it just needs to be an intentional display of appreciation and acknowledgment that will ensure you and your partner return to an everyday state of mental, emotional, and physical steadiness. Continue reading