A Beginner’s Guide To Bondage Collars

So, you’ve decided you want to keep your submissive on a tight leash?

Collars are a visual symbol of submission and control, and are often worn in the bedroom by submissive partners to indicate their position. Collars can also be practical, they typically feature rings for attaching either leads, or other restraints. When fastened to other furniture/equipment, it keeps subs in place for whatever pleasing or teasing is thrown their way. Continue reading

A Guide To BDSM Aftercare

All scenes, no matter what the focus is, should include responsible aftercare. Once a BDSM play scene has ended, it hasn’t really ended – the intimate and emotional connections will still be there, and so aftercare is important for everyone involved. Aftercare doesn’t need to be overly sentimental or grand, it just needs to be an intentional display of appreciation and acknowledgment that will ensure you and your partner return to an everyday state of mental, emotional, and physical steadiness. Continue reading

A Beginner’s Guide to Spanking and Flogging

It’s easy to see why spanking and flanking has become such a hit. It can take you on a journey of sensations from warm and gentle to thrilling spikes of pleasure and orgasmic release. Not only does it increase the blood flow to the nearby genitals and cause a spike in adrenaline, it also stimulates the nerve endings and increases sexual arousal.
If you like the idea of mixing pain and pleasure, make sure you have the right tools to whip your partner into a frenzy! Continue reading

A Guide To Suspension Bondage

Suspension Bondage is often avoided and considered off-limits due to the higher risk it carries than other forms of sexual bondage. It is a highly technical topic but if you and your partner learn the ropes and play within your abilities, you are guaranteed to have a lot of fun. Suspension bondage not only sets up a superb scene, but it also looks and feels incredible. So, if you revel in restraint, here’s the basics to get you started. Continue reading

AVN Awards 2017 – Best BDSM Movie

The 34th annual AVN Awards Show will be held Saturday, January 21, 2017 at The Joint at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Las Vegas. The annual AVN Awards Show sponsored by Chaturbate & MyFreeCams is the premier gala of adult video and recognizes titles, individuals, and companies for contributions to and excellence in the industry. Continue reading

Advanced Domination

BDSM is a grouping of two different things that are often but not always combined; sensation play and power dynamics. If someone is getting off on the feeling of being restrained and spanked, that’s sensation play. If they get excited at the thought of being overpowered and disciplined, that’s the power dynamic. Domination can be a combination of both, depending on what you and your partner enjoy. Communicate your desires, and encourage your partner to do the same – this will help you both understand what it that you want from the experience. Continue reading

What is Pony Play?

Pony play is the kinkiest type of role-play this side of a racecourse paddock.  It often draws on multiple elements of BDSM; from restraints, gags, and harnesses to domination and submission. This form of role-play creates situations that are meant to humiliate and degrade the sub for sexual arousal and pleasure. It has seen an increase in both popularity and public exposure over the last few years with Pony play becoming more common within the porn industry. Continue reading

Alcohol and BDSM – A Bad Move

Can you be tipsy and still engage kinkily?

Mixing alcohol and play is shunned upon by many BDSM social circles because not only does it loosen your inhibitions but you lose the ability to control yourself, to sense pain, and you lose awareness of your surroundings. Any kind of BDSM can be dangerous and can put you in a compromising position where serious damage can be done. This can occur mentally, physically, and psychologically. This is why safety needs to be your main concern at all times. BDSM is dangerous enough without adding more risk because of a slight, or total, inebriation. Continue reading

Being too Tolerant In The Bedroom

Thanks to ’50 Shades of Grey’ we are seeing an increase in bondage, especially rope bondage. This increase has also led to an increase in the amount of accident happening in the bedroom, including nerve damage to broken bones. This is likely to be linked to the lack of care and knowledge of the equipment used and the individual they are tying. Continue reading