A Beginner’s Guide To Rope Play

So, you’ve decided to tie the know?

You’ve already introduced the idea of bondage games, you’ve established safe words, and successfully brought bondage into your bedroom – now it’s time to take it up a notch. Rope work is kinky, fun, and a staple play for the majority of BDSM enthusiasts; it can be used to wrap, suspend, decorate, or restrain a person. So, if you’re ready to be tied down, let us show you the ropes. Continue reading

A Beginner’s Guide To Sexual Domination

Dominance and Submission is an alternative relationship in which a top or dom controls the actions, emotions, and will of the bottom, or sub. The relationship consists of two people who are mutually consenting adults who agree on a direction for their relationship. They agree that one of the partners will take the dominant, controlling role, and the other partner, the submissive, controlled role. Continue reading

A Beginner’s Guide To Mild Domination

BDSM is a grouping of two different things that are often but not always combined; sensation play and power dynamics. If someone is getting off on the feeling of being restrained and spanked, that’s sensation play. If they get excited at the thought of being overpowered and disciplined, that’s the power dynamic. Domination can be a combination of both, depending on what you and your partner enjoy. Communicate your desires and encourage your partner to do the same – this will help you both establish and understand what you want from the experience. Continue reading

Five Reasons You Should Try Prostate Play

Put off by prostate massage? Well, you’re not alone…

The prostate is a walnut sized, semen-storing gland located at the root of the penis. The P-spot, also sometimes known as the male G-spot, is the area of the prostate that can be felt and stimulated. Research suggests that regular prostate massage reduces the risk of prostatitis, prostate cancer, symptoms of erectile dysfunction, and genital pain. Continue reading

Long Distance Kink – Is it Possible?

Long-distance relationships are still relationships that require a different approach to develop the same connection and intimacy. Thanks to technology like Skype, Facetime and WhatsApp, long-distance BDSM play is entirely possible and can be very enjoyable! But like any long-distance relationship, a strong foundation needs to be established first.

After all, small problems can fester and later become big problems. So, if you can nip them in the bud early on, you have a much better chance in your long-distance romance.
In a long-distance BDSM relationship, the following concerns should be addressed as soon as possible: Continue reading

A Beginner’s Guide To Limits

“Limits” refers to an acceptable range of play for an individual, and is something that should be discussed when negotiating a scene. It ensures that all the rights, needs, and requirements are clearly understood. Some decide to write down their limits in the shape of a contract, which assures that both partners fully understand the limitations and acceptable forms of play. Others prefer to simply discuss and plan the scene in detail beforehand. Before entering into any relationship, it is important to clearly communicate and listen to each other carefully. Continue reading

The Top Five Tools For Impact Play

Roll down those trousers, guys! You’re in for a real treat.

Impact play is a more extreme form of spanking; an intense pounding that is often done with the intent to cause deep tissue bruising and leave markings. Not only does it increase blood flow to the area in question, thereby making it more sensitive, it stimulates the nerve endings and releases waves of pleasurable endorphins. Due to its recent popularity, there are plenty of specialised implements available including; floggers, whips, rods, switches, and canes to keep you busy! Continue reading

A Look at Advanced Domination

BDSM is a grouping of two different things that are often but not always combined; sensation play and power dynamics. If someone is getting off on the feeling of being restrained and spanked, that’s sensation play. If they get excited at the thought of being overpowered and disciplined, that’s the power dynamic. Domination can be a combination of both, depending on what you and your partner enjoy. Communicate your desires and encourage your partner to do the same, this will help you both understand what you want from the experience. Continue reading