Sex Games to Shake Up Your Foreplay

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Sex games are a fun and sexy way of breaking up bedroom boredom; they also open up the lines of communication and allow you and your partner to try something new. There are plenty of games to try out, but the truth is that finding the ones that you both like the most is a matter of personal preference. The key to finding something that gets you both hot under the collar, is doing some experimentation. Here are a few ideas to get you started.

Blindfolded

This is a great one to try if you’re new to sex games. It’s fun, simple and inexpensive – satin masks like Fetish Fantasy Satin Love Mask (£9.99, kinky.co.uk) can be purchased in adult stores or online. Alternatively, use a scarf or a tea towel. Being blindfolded heightens the senses and can be a super-sexy way to take your foreplay to a new level. This game is all about arousing the senses; take it in turns to blindfold each other and experiment with different sensations. Use a variety of textures such as feathers, silk, or velvet – you could even try ice or a lube that reacts to body temperatures. It’s all about exploring each other’s bodies slowly – the fun is in the anticipation and you are guaranteed to drive each other wild! For something a little more daring, you could try whips, nibbling and spanking.

Bondage

This game is all about your woman being in control, so let her call the shots. Sit on a chair and get your partner to tie your hands behind your back. You don’t need handcuffs for this game, a scarf, belt or bondage tape (£9.50, kinky.co.uk) will do. Then let her disappear and prepare for the fun – encourage her to wear something that makes her feel sexy like a pair of heels, some lacy lingerie, or a revealing outfit. Shopping together for this beforehand can be fun and allows you both to explore textures or outfits you may not have previously considered.

Now the real fun begins! You have absolutely no say in what happens next (although we recommend that you both agree on a safe word, just in case). She might provocatively walk around the chair gliding her hands over your body, she might straddle you, she might lick you, she might nibble you, or she might perform a sexy strip tease. As you have no idea what happens next, you’ll be quivering with excitement! Most guys enjoy being the centre of attention and having no responsibility over what happens next. So let her keep going until you are begging to be untied!

Time Bomb

All you need is an egg timer or a clock. This is all about slowing down your foreplay, taking the time to explore each other and really get creative. So, one of you choose an amount of time (don’t go over forty minutes, or you may pass out from the excitement!). Whatever period you choose, you cannot penetrate until that amount of time has passed. Time Bomb is a great way of refocusing on the enjoyment of pre-sex, the part that was once really fun before life got too chaotic. It’s great for those who want to practice their foreplay technique and are intimidated/turned off by the idea of a ‘sex game’. Suggest things you would like to try and force yourselves to experiment a little more than usual. Who knows what you’ll both discover!

Taking It Public

Doing naughty things in public can be kinky. Not everyone will feel comfortable with the idea, so make sure you and your partner talk through what you’re both expecting from the experience and any concerns you may have before trying it out. The first idea that comes to mind when you think about ‘public play’ is getting it on in public, but there’s so much more than this. Purchase a remote control vibrator like the Wireless Vibrating Egg (£25.00, kinky.co.uk) and wear it the next time you go out, leaving your partner with the controls. Alternatively, the next time you are out in public with your partner and are wearing a skirt, take off your panties and give them to him – he will be very, very turned on!

Take the time to re-discover the fun of foreplay. It’s a great way of introducing new toys and techniques in to the bedroom and could result in a whole new world of fun.

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