Sex Games to Spice Up Your Foreplay

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Sex games are a fun and sexy way of adding a new level of fun and excitement to your relationship; they also open up the lines of communication and allow you and your partner to try something new. Set some time aside to play, and you’ll find yourself connecting in a completely new way.

Blindfolded

This is a great one to try if you’re new to sex games. It’s fun, simple and inexpensive – soft and comfortable leather masks like the Leather Blindfold Eye Mask (£12.99, kinky.co.uk) can be purchased in adult stores or online. Alternatively, use a scarf or a tie.

Being blindfolded heightens the senses and can be a super-sexy way to take your foreplay to a new level. This game is all about arousing the senses; take it in turns to blindfold each other and experiment with different sensations. Use a variety of textures such as feathers, silk, metal, and velvet to tease and excite your partner. You could even try ice or a lube that reacts to body temperatures, like Durex Play – Warming (£5.99, kinky.co.uk). It’s all about exploring each other’s bodies slowly – the fun is in the anticipation and you’re guaranteed to drive each other wild! For something a little more daring, you could try wax play, nibbling, and gentle spanking.

Bondage

This game is all about your lady being in control, so let her call the shots. Sit on a chair and get your partner to tie your hands behind your back. You don’t need Handcuffs (£8.99, kinky.co.uk) for this game, a scarf, belt or bondage tape (£9.50, kinky.co.uk) will do. Then let her disappear and prepare for the fun; encourage her to wear something that makes her feel sexy like a pair of heels, some lacy lingerie, or a revealing outfit. Shopping together for this beforehand can add to the fun, and allows you both to explore textures or outfits you may not have previously considered.

Now the real fun begins! You have absolutely no say in what happens next. She might provocatively walk around the chair gliding her hands over your body, she might straddle you, she might lick you, she might nibble you, or she might perform a sexy strip tease…you’ll be quivering with excitement! Allow her to keep going until you are begging to be untied.

Time Bomb

All you need is an egg timer or a clock. This is all about slowing down your foreplay, taking the time to explore each other and get creative.

To start, one of you should choose an amount of time (don’t go over forty minutes, or you may pass out from the excitement!). Whatever period you choose, you cannot penetrate until that amount of time has passed. Time Bomb is a great way of bringing the focus back to foreplay, the part that was really exciting before life got too chaotic. It’s great for those who want to practice their foreplay technique and are intimidated/turned off by the idea of a ‘sex game’. Suggest things you would like to try and force yourselves to leave your comfort zone and experiment. Who knows what you’ll both discover!

Board Games

There are a wide range of Board Games available that are designed to add excitement and reignite the passion in the bedroom. If you’re looking to start with something playful but not sure what to do, Strip and Tease (£14.99, kinky.co.uk) will inspire some sexy fun. Strip or Tease will help you perfect the art of undressing erotically and sexily, tantalising each other with thoughts of what may be to come…

Monogamy: A Hot Affair (£24.99, kinky.co.uk) is guaranteed to spice things up between you and your partner. Recently awarded adult board game of the year, explore new experiences, have fun and embark on a sexual adventure with the one you love. With over 400 ideas at three levels of play, you can make the game as sweet or sexy as you want. The game climaxes with the winner choosing to make one of 50 breath-taking fantasies come true. It’s the hottest affair you’ll ever have – and all with your partner!

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