Prime Positions for Pegging

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In recent years, pegging has taken the sexual world by storm. Pegging is when a woman uses a strap-on harness and dildo to anally penetrate a man, and indulge in female-male strap-on sex.

Strap-ons can seem intimidating at first, but they’re one of the most versatile sex toys out there and can really spice things up! If you have already began exploring anal play, why not invite your partner to help you explore every inch of your body?

The prostate gland is a walnut sized, semen-storing gland located at the root of the penis. The P-spot, also sometimes known as the male G-spot, is the area of the prostate that can be felt and stimulated. As its directly linked to the penis and testicles, stimulating the prostrate will directly affect the rest of his genitals and result in some explosive orgasms.

Not convinced? Here’s a few more reasons to give pegging a go:

Discover new sensations! Plus, it frees up your hands, so you can stimulate multiple areas at the same time.

It’s a kinky BDSM addition; allowing someone to penetrate them in this way is a form of submission, and handing over control signals a whole new level of intimacy a trust.

For women, physical pleasure can come from the sensation of the base of the dildo rubbing.

It will really hit the ‘spot’; strap-ons are contoured to hit the right spot, so prepare yourself for a series of intense, orgasmic, and sexy sessions. You’re in for a treat.

Getting Started

Start with a little anal foreplay, exploring the area with lubricated fingers and maybe a small butt plug. Stroke, tease, massage and tickle the anus, making sure you’re both relaxed and warmed up.

With any kind of penetration, preparation is vital for maximum pleasure. Firstly, load up on some lube as this will help you both relax into the mood. Steady the dildo with one hand and keeping a grip on the shaft of the toy, guide the head of the dildo in gently. Once the head of the dildo enters about an inch or two, pause and let your partner get used to the feeling.

When they are ready to take a little more, you can try thrusting gently. If your partner can take it, try playing with the speed and force. Pay attention to their reactions, movements, and the sounds they make. Take your cues from the intensity of their moans and groans and their reactions to your thrusting.

Positions

You may be tempted to dive straight into a ‘pounding technique’, but you don’t want to frighten him off! Much like female penetration, there are many different ways to hit the big O.

Reverse Cowboy gives him control. This can be more relaxing for them, particularly when it’s their first time. The giver simply lies back on the bed and allows their partner to turn their back to them.

If the aspect of you being in control turns you both on, missionary and doggy are good options. Both positions are very easy and are perfect for beginners. Doggy style is great for rear entry and gives you a great view of his ass.

If you’re already familiar with doggy and are looking for something a little different, why not try lazy doggy? It is similar to standard doggy style, except the receiver will lie on their front. The giver will then give them what they really want. It’s only a small variation, but it will totally change how it feels for both of you.

Looking to spice things up? Why not take your play out of the bed and against a wall? It is one of the best pegging positions for those eager to try something new because you can do it anywhere. Ideal for the shower or your bedroom wall – just make sure you have plenty of lube to hand and something to brace yourself against!

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