Preparing for a Second Round

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When it comes to sex, there are some questions we all want answered: how do you increase the size and strength of your erections? How can you improve your stamina and go harder for longer? How do you rise to the occasion and satisfy her a second time?

The penis is the most temperamental part of a man’s body. It tends to get too excited for its own good, showing up in a big way at the worst times. But it can also retreat from duty when you need it most. It’s no news that when it comes to round two, women have an easier time getting back in the ring than men do. But the good news is that it’s not an impossible task; with a few tips, the right information, and some products engineered to save the day, you’ll be able to give her an encore performance.

Be Aware of Your Refractory Period

The refractory period is the time it takes a man to become sexually aroused and sustain an erection following sex. There’s no one size fits all – it varies and is impacted by age, hormones, and overall health.

How to work around this period? Communication is vital. Setting expectations with your partner on how long it’s going to take you to be able to get ready for round two is going to help take the pressure off you (stress and/or performance anxiety are rarely kind to erections) and get her involved in what needs to be done in order for you to get there.

Keep the Stimulation Going

Refractory periods are always going to be the challenge to overcome, but sustained stimulation and arousal after round one could help get things up and running sooner. Through engaging in another round of foreplay, you can replace the fatigue with erotic thoughts that will help you regain an erection faster.

You might require more stimuli than normal – if so, communicate this to your partner and guide her actions; especially if the stimulation is overpowering or too much.

Don’t Be Afraid to Take Control

You know your body better than anyone – so if you need a significant amount of time to recover, fill that time by doing something that keeps you connected with your partner. It can be anything from an erotic game to showering together to a full-body massage, but it shows your partner that you’re invested and keen to get back in the sack!

Clean Up

You’re going to have to do it anyway – so why not take this period to clean up and prepare physically for round two. Treat the second round the same as the first in terms of precautions.

Introduce Something New

We all know that shaking up our routine can work wonders for our sex life, so why can’t this be applied to round two?

Here are a few suggestions to up the excitement and get those dopamine levels back up:

  • Cock rings trap blood inside the penis and creates a ‘super erection’, which means you’re more likely to be ready for round two sooner and ensures you remain rock solid for longer. If you have diabetes, any type of nerve or blood disorders, or are taking blood thinning medication, you should discuss using a cock ring with your GP or nurse beforehand.
  • Massage oils provide stimulation and an opportunity for both of you to continue connecting, which can help rev you up for round two. Some contain pheromone scents to keep your senses heightened and engaged, while others are flavoured so your partner’s body will be totally kissable and lickable!
  • Blindfolds are fun, simple, and inexpensive. Being blindfolded heightens the senses and can be a super-sexy way to take your foreplay to a new level. Use a variety of textures such as feathers, silk, metal, and velvet to tease and excite your partner. For something a little more daring, you could try wax play, nibbling, and gentle spanking.
  • Restraining systems will transform your bed into a passion playground. They’re fun, versatile, and the perfect way to draw out sexy foreplay sessions!
  • Nipple clamps and suckers focus on an area that is often an overlooked source of pleasure. Playing with nipple clamps not only results in increased sensitivity, it also delivers an incredible natural high, and provides a real taste of submissive satisfaction.
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