How To Make a Woman Orgasm in Ten Minutes

Woman's hands pulling white sheets in ecstasy, orgasm

Gentleman, start her engine. It’s time to turn the pre-work fumble or half-time quickie into an explosion that she’s still shuddering from two hours later. Not only will it leave your partner sexually fulfilled, but with an increased likelihood of orgasm she is guaranteed to demand more time between the sheets. So everyone’s a winner!

Don’t Rush Your Foreplay

Women really don’t want a guy who’s rushing for the finishing line. Foreplay is a much more crucial piece of the pie than it’s often credited to be. In fact, it can be the difference between a good sexual experience and a bad one. So set some time aside to play, and you’ll find yourself connecting in a completely new way. Kiss and touch her erogenous zones, such as the neck, breast, inner thigh, and her stomach. And don’t forget to talk to her during foreplay. Women tend to be more verbal, and hearing how good she’s making you feel can help her open up and have fun.

Want to take foreplay to the next level?

Blindfolding your partner is fun, simple and inexpensive – soft and comfortable leather masks like the Leather Blindfold Eye Mask (£12.99, kinky.co.uk) can be purchased in adult stores or online. Alternatively, use a scarf or a tie.

Being blindfolded heightens the senses, so use a variety of textures such as feathers, silk, metal, and velvet to tease and excite your partner. You could even try ice or a lube that reacts to body temperatures, like Durex Play – Warming (£5.99, kinky.co.uk). It’s all about exploring each other’s bodies slowly – the fun is in the anticipation and you’re guaranteed to drive each other wild! For something a little more daring, you could try wax play, nibbling, and gentle spanking.

Oral Sex

According to sexologists at the Masters & Johnson Institute, cunnilingus is the most reliable route to orgasm for 80% of women. On top of that, 88% of women say that it is their favourite sex act.

Start slow. If she’s not relaxed, she’s not going to enjoy it. Take your time exploring her body and make it clear that you’re not in a rush to get it over with. Kiss her neck and collar bone, then work your way down to her nipples, navel, and thighs.

When you’ve arrived at where you want to be, there’s no need to dive straight in there. Start with some soft kisses and work your way up to the tongue; gently lick her from the vagina to the clit, stopping to roll your tongue around her clit. Don’t neglect the clitoris – it has around 8,000 nerve endings. Think of it as a tiny penis with double the senses; so you can imagine how incredibly sensitive it is, and how amazing it feels when it’s stimulated in the right way!

Feedback is vital if you want to give the best possible oral. One way of doing this is getting your partner to direct you a little, so you spend more time doing whatever it is that ticks the right boxes for her. Pay attention to her reactions, and don’t be afraid to ask her if what you’re doing feels good.

Introduce Some Fingers

Fingering is both pleasurable for you and your partner, especially if you like to watch her body wriggle up and down as she cums.

For most women, the clitoris is the place to stimulate. Use the tips of your fingers to rub her clitoris softly in a circular motion. Listen to her moans and groans, they will let you know when you’re hitting the spot. Continue your pace and when she’s ready, slowly begin to increase speed. Some women will want you to keep going at an increased speed without stopping, however, others like it when you take a break and insert your fingers into her vagina instead. Again, it all depends on her reaction – and don’t be afraid to ask her what she likes and to guide your movements.

Penetration

It’s time for the main event. Instead of deep thrusting, try the Coital Alignment Technique. To do it, start in the classic missionary then pull back so the base of your penis rests on her clitoris. Brace your feet against the foot of the bed and rock backwards and forwards rather than thrusting. Your penis gently massages her clitoris, which is great for her but also gives you slow, pulsating sensations that you control.

Alternatively, try simultaneous stimulating her G-spot and clit. Having her from behind is the best position for this because while you work the former, you can use your hands or call up sex toy reinforcements to take care of the latter. When you start doing something that causes a positive response, keep doing it, at exactly the same speed and pressure until she orgasms. She’ll definitely thank you for it!

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