How To Use Anal Beads

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Anal beads are a great way for beginners to experience anal sex gradually and gently. They can be used alone for unique anal stimulation, during masturbation or intercourse. Anal beads generally consist of multiple spheres or balls attached together. Most anal beads start off small and gradually get larger as you move down the chain, allowing you to enjoy more and more length and girth as you become more comfortable. The great thing about using anal beads: they feel good on the way in and on the way out!

With over a third of Westerners having tried it, anal penetration is a kink that is becoming increasingly popular in the bedroom. However, there’s still a bit of confusion about when and how to use them. So, here are a few points to consider:

Hygiene Is Key

Sex can be messy, and even more-so when it comes to anal play. There are simply steps to take which will ensure that your experience is clean, safe and fun. First, empty your bowels at least 30 minutes before you start.
Generally, faeces isn’t stored where a penis, tongue or sex toy can reach. However, for those wanting to be squeaky clean, using an Anal Douche (£11.99, kinky.co.uk) will help release any build up. This step is not needed and is more of a personal preference than a hygiene essential.

As with all toys, wash your beads thoroughly or use a toy cleaner, like Loving Joy Toy Cleaner (£5.99, kinky.co.uk), and store after use. If you and your partner decide to share toys during a kinky session; clean the beads between uses. This reduces the risk of infections and other nasty surprises.

Choosing Your Beads

Anal beads are almost always smooth, spheres that are made of plastic, metal or silicone. Some are made from glass or wood; however, these should generally be avoided as there’s a chance that the glass could break or the wood producing splinter in the anus. Silicone beads are flexible and easy to clean – making them perfect for beginners. Once inserted, they can be left in the rectum during intercourse, or can be removed with varying speeds to help achieve orgasm.

When trying anal beads for the first time, opt for a set of flexible beads that will glide along with every internal curve of your body, such as Kinx Onyx Silicone Beads (£13.99, kinky.co.uk). The flexibility will allow you to comfortably penetrate deeper and stimulate various parts until you find your pleasure points.

Anal beads are one of the most flexible types of anal toys out there when it comes to length – you can insert as much or as little as you like. This flexibility is one of the main attractions of anal beads for beginners as it allows you to move at your own pace. When it comes to length, remember that you can always leave beads out, but you can’t magically make more appear when you want more!

If you’ve already experienced the joys of anal play and fancy something a little different, you might like to try something stiff and straight like the Anal Fantasy Collection Power Beads (£29.99, kinky.co.uk). https://www.kinky.co.uk/anal-fantasy-collection-power-beads.html Looking to add some vibrations to your play? A set of Anal Fantasy Collection Vibro Balls (£29.99, kinky.co.uk), https://www.kinky.co.uk/anal-fantasy-collection-deluxe-vibro-balls.html are guaranteed to give you an added thrill. The sleek weighted balls are self-pleasuring and continue to vibrate with each movement of your body.

Before buying, make sure the beads are well made and that there’s no risk of the cord breaking inside you. If you plan on inserting the full length of the beads, choose a toy that has a strong, thick loop or a wide and stable handle that’s firmly attached, like the Loving Joy Anal Love Beads (£5.99, kinky.co.uk), to prevent them slipping fully inside you.

Getting Started

Since the anus does not lubricate itself, lube will make the experience more comfortable and pleasurable. There are plenty of anal lubes available which have a greater viscosity than the standard water-based versions.

Thoroughly lubricate yourself and your anal beads in the lube of your choice before insertion. Creams and lubes that numb the anus should be avoided – pain is a sign that something isn’t right and without these signs you could cause some serious damage. If you feel any pain, stop what you’re doing, relax, and try it again.

Start by pushing just the first bead inside you and getting used to the sensation of anal penetration. When you feel ready, insert more, using one hand to push the beads in and the other hand to keep your anus spread. If you feel any pain, stop what you’re doing, relax, and try it again. Once you reach the final bead, you should be feeling full and satisfyingly stretched. Looking for a more intense sensation? Try pulling the beads out gently at the point of orgasm. The beads will pass along the two ringed sphincter muscles, triggering intensely pleasurable sensations.

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