How To Send The Hottest Sexts

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Sexting can be super-hot; it’s cheeky, sexy and very flirty. Sometimes we’ll want to send our partner a few saucy sexts to put them in the mood but figuring out the right thing to say can be difficult. Some people opt to simply send emojis and be done with it, while others might go for the classic dick pic.

Not sure where to begin? It’s easier than it seems, so take a look and see what kinky things you might be sending.

It Starts with Trust

Are you 100% sure that you trust your partner? Are they the type that might show their friends your sexy pics? Accidentally leave their phone on a table for others to find? Or even worse, upload them online if you go through a bad break up?

This may all sound over the top, but if there’s even a shadow of doubt in your mind; you may want to consider ways of sending sexy but safe pictures that can get your partner worked up but will still protect your image. The easiest way of doing this is by sending a picture that doesn’t necessarily have to include your face. If you’re already nervous, you’ll relax more knowing that no one who accidentally stumbles across these pictures will know it’s you.

Don’t Send Anything You Wouldn’t Say

When it comes to sending texts or emails, we are often bolder than we would be in the flesh. If you wouldn’t say something out loud to your partner, you probably shouldn’t text it. The barrier and anonymity provided by texting and online interaction allows us to feel more comfortable when letting loose with our dirtiest talk – but if it feels forced or over the top, it’ll come across that way to your partner, too.

So, stick to what you know. Think back to the last time you had sex. What happened?

Use this as a base to describe things in your messages. It’ll work well because it shows your partner how much of an impact it had on you, and best of all they’ll remember it too! It will create a vivid image in their head and they’ll be turned on in no time at all.

Make it About Them, Not You

Focus on the person you are messaging. Tell them what you would do to them, going into as much detail as you feel comfortable with.

It works better if you make it into a conversation. Give your partner time to respond. Try saying things like “I’d slowly kiss my way down your body, letting my lips linger on your sensitive nipples”. Your partner can then explain their reaction and what they might do with their hands.

Use Your Senses

For those who are feeling a little more creative and want to spice things up, you can use your senses to describe the things you’d love to happen or want to try.

There’s no need to focus on just the visual. Does it turn you on when your partner moans your name? Does it make your heart race and your cock throb when you feel their heavy breathing on your neck?

Go through each of the five senses. What can you describe to them with each one? You’ll be surprised by what you can come up with, and this will help to immerse you both into your kinky conversation.

Skip the Emojis

Emojis are great for sending to your friends; but if you are trying to sext with someone, there is no bigger turn off than getting a message that says, “I can’t wait to stick my [eggplant] in your [peach]”.

It just doesn’t work. It seems like a cop-out. If you feel too uncomfortable spelling it out, or can’t be bothered writing the actual words, how do we know that you will put the effort in to turning us on properly? If you want to get the most enjoyment from it, let it happen naturally without forcing or rushing it. Take your time, think about what turns you on, and start writing – you’ll find that it is a hell of a lot more fun!

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