A Beginner’s Guide To Pet Play

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rt the play, and the pet will lick the ankles of their partner to signal they are ready to come out of their pet space. It’s the way for them to tell you that they’re content and happy, but they’re just done for the day.

What to Wear?

Pet play can be as expensive as you want it to be. There are plenty of great stores that sell human-specific pet play items.
 
The most crucial canine accessory is the collar. You can opt for a collar and lead in one like the Bare Bondage Collar and Leash (£29.99, kinky.co.uk) or you can buy them separately. It’s all a matter of preference. Whether you’re looking for a Studded Collar (£27.99, kinky.co.uk), a Plain Leather Collar (£27.99, kinky.co.uk) or study Leather Lead (£22.00, kinky.co.uk) – there’s something for everyone.

If you decide to use a collar, ensure that it fits comfortably and safely. Tighten the collar slowly and make sure there is a two-finger gap between the neck and the collar. Never tug on the collar or a lead attached to the collar as a form of disciplining your pet – a sharp tug could cause serious damage.

That’s not all. You can also wear ears, a tail, a fur coat, and whatever else makes you feel the part. You might also want to discuss whether your pet needs to be naked or if they can be dressed. Whether they just get underwear or if they can wear lingerie too.

Details

When it comes to Pet Play, you want to think out your details before allowing your partner to enter the role. You’ll want to have all your ideas already planned, so you won’t be faced with any surprises. Also, if your pet knows some things are off-limits or must be done as an animal, then you have managed to increase the intensity of their headspace.

The first detail you should think about is movement. Most people prefer to be on their hands and knees as a pet, and that’s also what will increase their headspace. However, talk to your partner and gage what would prefer.

Next, is the idea of furniture. Is your pet allowed on the sofa? Should they only stay on the floor? Make sure that these are discussed in detail beforehand, so that your pet knows what is and what isn’t off bounds.

The third detail is punishment. If you’ve decided your pet isn’t allowed on furniture and ignores this rule, what are you going to do? Hit them on the nose with a rolled-up newspaper? Lock them in the bathroom? Bring out the Leather Paddle (£29.99, kinky.co.uk)? Again, this is certainly something you need to discuss in advance with your partner.

What about vocalization? Is your pet allowed to talk if they need something? Do they have to learn how to give you subtle clues? A muzzle or Bit Gag (£19.99, kinky.co.uk) will keep them from talking. You should discuss what they should do if they need to use the bathroom.

Take your time going over any details you think are important during your play. If you think your partner may have a differing opinion than your own, you will want to bring them into the discussion and ask their opinion as well. Once you’ve thought out all of your bases, you’re ready to go!

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