Fun Ways to Use a Dildo

Various sex toys (dildo, anal balls, vibrator, fur handcuffs and others)

Sometimes there’s nobody that can get you off better than you can. You know exactly what you like; the pressure points, the spots, and angles. But it’s not just for solo-play – women can enjoy vaginal and anal stimulation simultaneously or receive oral while being penetrate. For men, you can receive oral, whilst enjoying some anal action. Double the pleasure, double the fun!

If you want to know the most enjoyable ways to use as a dildo during sex, or if you are curious to find some new things to try out on your partner, keep reading for some of the best tips and tricks.

Solo Play

Dildos might seem intimidating to some, but don’t let that put you off! They are highly versatile, multipurpose, and fun – you can get a huge selection that cater to pretty much every kink and fantasy!

When it comes to using a dildo, the most important thing is to be as comfortable and relaxed as possible – tensing up will make the experience less enjoyable and could end up being quite uncomfortable. If you’re nervous, try rubbing the sensitive areas of your body like your thighs and nipples first – this should help you relax and get you in the mood for experimenting. Always begin by applying a lubricant to the entire length of the dildo and the area around your vagina: this will reduce the friction.

The Butterfly

This is the perfect position for beginners as it’s both comfortable and allows easy access. For this position you need to lie on your back (some like to place pillows under their hips for extra support), place your feet together, and let your legs flop to the side. Start by holding the shaft firmly and slowly slide the head in and out, penetrating deeper each time. When you’re ready, progress to faster, deeper thrusts especially as you begin towards the build up to climax.

Twist and Shout

When you’re having sex, the penis doesn’t just go in and out; the grinding of hips and the motions of your bodies provides varied sensations and pressures against your vaginal walls. You can emulate this with your dildo; as you penetrate slowly twist your wrist. Experiment with different pressures, different directions and the amount of twist until you discover the pace that works best for you.

Partner Play

Looking to incorporate a dildo into your play? A sexy way to do this is to show your partner just what you want to do to them. Start by slowly sliding your tongue up and down the shaft, letting them know what’s in store for them later. For those who enjoy light humiliation play; make it clear that you want them to beg you to do it before you’ll move on from the dildo.

Does your partner want to get their hands dirty? Getting them to penetrate you from behind with a dildo will certainly take your foreplay up a notch! Kneel on all floors and get your partner to gently penetrate you from behind with a dildo, starting with slow strokes. Stay in control and verbally dictate the depth, angle and speed of penetration. He’ll enjoy watching you quiver with delight and is guaranteed to replicate those movements the next time you both get hot and heavy!

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