What Is Pony Play?

Pony play is the kinkiest type of role-play this side of a racecourse paddock.  It often draws on multiple elements of BDSM; from restraints, gags, and harnesses to domination and submission. This form of role-play creates situations that are meant to humiliate and degrade the sub for sexual arousal and pleasure. It has seen an increase in both popularity and public exposure over the last few years with Pony play becoming more common within the porn industry.   Continue reading

Long Distance Kink – Is it Possible?

Long-distance relationships are still relationships that require a different approach to develop the same connection and intimacy. Thanks to technology like Skype, Facetime and WhatsApp, long-distance BDSM play is entirely possible and can be very enjoyable! But like any long-distance relationship, a strong foundation needs to be established first.

After all, small problems can fester and later become big problems. So, if you can nip them in the bud early on, you have a much better chance in your long-distance romance.
In a long-distance BDSM relationship, the following concerns should be addressed as soon as possible: Continue reading

Is Fantasising Good For a Relationship?

We are all guilty of it – fantasising about other people that is. Even if you’re in a relationship with someone you love, some of the most common sexual fantasies involve other people. A recent survey of 1,300 women by Lovehoney found that 42 percent of men and 46 percent of women thought of someone else during sex. So, it’s pretty normal, but is it really OK to think about someone else during sex? Continue reading

Silicone Sex Toys – Myths v Reality

There are so many benefits to silicone sex toys. They are often considered the superior sex toy material as they can feel as realistic as jelly and rubber toys, but are 100% skin safe, non-porous, and easy to clean. There is a fantastic variety of silicone toys available, catering to all tastes and desires. Nevertheless, silicone sex toys are shrouded in myths and false marketing, which makes it difficult for us to separate the facts from the fiction. It’s time to set the facts straight! Continue reading

The Myths About Cross-Dressing

People who cross-dress wear the clothing, accessories, makeup, and hairstyles of the “opposite sex.” That is, a biological male may dress in what is usually considered to be “female clothing” and a biological female may dress in what is typically considered “male clothing.” Even in the 21st Century it is a subject that’s still taboo and universally misunderstood. Nevertheless, recent figures suggest that 1% of the male population in the West cross-dress, while others claim it could be as high as 8%. Continue reading

Schoolgirl Fantasies – Is There a Problem?

There is no clothing fetish more common than that of the ‘schoolgirl’ outfit. It is so universal that some question if it’s a fetish at all. In virtually all pornographic magazines and videos, you’ll find examples of kinky women with pigtails wearing short plaid skirts and knee high socks acting young and innocent. Continue reading