A Beginners Guide To Using Nipple Clamps

Nipples are often an overlooked source of pleasure for men and women alike that, when done correctly, can lead to sensational orgasms. Increasing sensitivity and delivering an intense natural high, there’s nothing quite like the sensations experienced with nipple clamps during nipple play.

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5 Reasons You Should Try Spreader Bars

Think the only spread you’re likely to enjoy is that which comes with toast? Think again! A BDSM spreader bar is a rod that spreads legs or arms and keeps them firmly apart.

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Beginner’s Guide to Clit and Pussy Pumps

If you’re looking to increase your sensitivity without using a topical product, you can try a pussy pump or a smaller clitoral pump. They’re a completely safe way to increase sensation temporarily.

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A Beginner’s Guide To Foot Fetish

Contrary to popular belief, most people don’t find feet repulsive. Quite the opposite, actually: Foot fetishism, which is having admiration for or sexual attraction to feet, is one of the most common fetishes out there. In a study of fetishes published in the International Journal of Impotence Research, feet and toes were the body parts most likely to be lusted after. Every detail about the foot can get an individual going. Most foot fetishists tend to be men who enjoy the smell or taste of feet and require some interaction with this part of the body to experience an orgasm.

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Establishing and Communicating Limits

Discovering what your BDSM limits are is an important part of being the kink scene.

“Limits” refers to an acceptable range of play for an individual and is something that should be discussed when negotiating a scene. It ensures that all the rights, needs, and requirements are clearly understood. Some decide to write down their limits in the shape of a contract, which assures that both partners fully understand the limitations and acceptable forms of play. Others prefer to simply discuss and plan the scene in detail beforehand. Before entering into any relationship, it is important to clearly communicate and listen to each other carefully.

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Mummification: A Beginners’ Guide

Mummification is not just a source of folklore and horror movies. Within a BDSM and bondage context, mummification is a specialised form of bondage in which an individual is completely immobilised. They can be wrapped in a variety of materials, from cling film to body bags to the more traditional bandages. Some enjoy being left for a period of time in a state of sensory deprivation, while others enjoy being sensually stimulated in their state of bondage – it really depends on the preferences of the individual.

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