5 Reasons You Should Try Spreader Bars

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Think the only spread you’re likely to enjoy is that which comes with toast? Think again! A BDSM spreader bar is a rod that spreads legs or arms and keeps them firmly apart.

They provide resistance, enhance positions, and keep your partner exactly where you want them. Spreader bars are simple and easy to use and store. They are a great intermediate product if you are bored with fluffy cuffs and fancy something a little more hardcore.

Safety First

As with any type of bondage or BDSM activity, it is essential to agree on a safety word or action and discuss boundaries beforehand. And never EVER leave a restrained bottom unattended!

Never make unrealistic demands of your body (or your partners), and always go for props and toys that you are both comfortable with and can ease yourself into slowly. Listen to your body and/or your partner and stop immediately if either of you would experience any pain.

The biggest concern when using restraints is reduced circulation. Noticeable indications of a loss of circulation include tingling, numbness, a drop in temperature, or a change in skin colour. If any of these symptoms occur, it is vital that the restraints are removed immediately and the scene is stopped.

To prevent this from happening, adopt the two-finger rule (leave space for one or two fingers between restraints and the skin) and tie above and below the joints rather than on/over them. Never leave your partner unattended.

1.Creating the Strongest of Connections

Surrendering control can be an incredible thrill. Likewise, being the one in control is a huge turn on.

Engaging in bondage play not only demonstrates your level of commitment and trust but also allows you to see one another in a different, incredibly sexy light. Investing in some spreading bars is bound to strengthen any relationship!

2. Ensuring the Perfect Position

Using a BDSM spreader bar ‘locks’ your partner into the optimum position for play that’s ‘spot’ on every time! It’ll open you and your partner up to a host of new and more challenging positions, and will allow you to maintain these positions for even longer.

The Leg Spreader Bar (£59.99, kinky.co.uk), is made from tubular steel that provides a spread of 24″. There are leather cuffs at each end that locks tight around the ankle, creating an excellent form of restriction. Use this spreader standing up, lying down, or use it to lift your partner’s legs up during your kinky games.

3. Taking Your Play To The Next Level

Firstly, with a BDSM spreader bar, your partner will be exquisitely exposed to whatever sexy stimulation is thrown their way. Secondly, spreader bars that secure wrists and ankles, like the Fetish Fantasy Series Hogtie Bondage Bar (£49.99, kinky.co.uk) takes away your partner’s ability to touch – heightening all other senses!

That means a spreader bar magnifies every luscious lick, sensual stroke, teasing touch and tormenting tickle, bringing your partner to the edge of ecstasy time and time again. It really is explosive!

4. An Intense Orgasmic Experience

With your partner locked in place, a spreader bar provides the perfect opportunity to help them push through the intensity barrier and engage in a little forced orgasm play! Use body parts, textures, food, toys etc. to deliver stimulation that continues relentlessly. They may squirm and beg for you to stop, but they’ll be glad that you don’t (unless a safeword is used, of course)!

5. It Looks Hot…

If you like the look of your partner all tied up, then you’ll love watching them squirm with pleasure bound to a BDSM spreader bar. Now, spread ‘em!

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