A Beginner’s Guide To Mild Domination

BDSM is a grouping of two different things that are often but not always combined; sensation play and power dynamics. If someone is getting off on the feeling of being restrained and spanked, that’s sensation play. If they get excited at the thought of being overpowered and disciplined, that’s the power dynamic. Domination can be a combination of both, depending on what you and your partner enjoy. Communicate your desires and encourage your partner to do the same – this will help you both establish and understand what you want from the experience. Continue reading

What Is Pony Play?

Pony play is the kinkiest type of role-play this side of a racecourse paddock.  It often draws on multiple elements of BDSM; from restraints, gags, and harnesses to domination and submission. This form of role-play creates situations that are meant to humiliate and degrade the sub for sexual arousal and pleasure. It has seen an increase in both popularity and public exposure over the last few years with Pony play becoming more common within the porn industry.   Continue reading

A Beginner’s Guide to Taking Sexy Selfies

Sending a sexy photo, if it’s done right, can really spice up your relationship and get you both worked up and excited for your next encounter. There’s no need to completely strip off – be suggestive instead by sucking on a lollipop or sending a picture of your new Lace Up Romper (£29.99, kinky.co.uk). For those of you who aren’t 100% comfortable and confident with sexy snapshots; props, blankets, and filters can be used to cover, crop and change the bits you’re unhappy with. Show as much or as little as you like, just remember to keep it light-hearted and fun! Continue reading