Alcohol and BDSM – A Bad Move

Can you be tipsy and still engage kinkily?

Mixing alcohol and play is shunned upon by many BDSM social circles because not only does it loosen your inhibitions but you lose the ability to control yourself, to sense pain, and you lose awareness of your surroundings. Any kind of BDSM can be dangerous and can put you in a compromising position where serious damage can be done. This can occur mentally, physically, and psychologically. This is why safety needs to be your main concern at all times. BDSM is dangerous enough without adding more risk because of a slight, or total, inebriation. Continue reading

A Guide to Watersports!

Pee or not to pee? That is the question!

Urolagnia is a paraphilia in which people are sexually arouse by urine – the sight, smell or thought of either the act of urination or urine itself. In scientific circles it can also be called urophagia, urolagnia, renifleurism, undinism, and ondinisme. In non-scientific circles it is more popularly called water sports, golden showers, and piss play. People have been using urine to enhance and arouse sexual pleasure for centuries. However, in today’s society recreational urine play remains taboo and is often portrayed as something dirty and forbidden. However, for those looking to taste a bit of forbidden fruit or simply expand their sexual repertoire, it can be exciting, empowering and sexy. Continue reading

Butt Plugs – A Guide

Butt plugs are a great way for beginners to experience anal sex gradually and gently. Depending on the model, butt plugs can be used alone for unique stimulation, during intercourse or masturbation. Finally, check the quality of the product. These anal toys are conical shaped, starting small but gradually widening in size, allowing you to enjoy more and more girth as you get more comfortable. Designed specifically for anal play, a butt plug with gently stretch the anus and stimulate the sensitive nerve endings for out-of-this-world pleasure. Continue reading

The Best Fleshlights We Have

Fleshlight has been around for a while, but has become increasingly popular among men looking for a discreet but sexy toy. Disguised as a torch, Fleshlight is a high quality masturbation sleeve that enhances self-pleasure or adds an extra dimension to foreplay. The inner sleeve is available with vulva, anus, and mouth orifices, and is made from an extremely lifelike material that simulates the feel and intense sensations of sex. Continue reading