A Beginner’s Guide To Gags

A gag is specifically designed to muffle the submissive during BDSM play. Although there are many different types of gags, ball gags are by far the most popular. They have featured in numerous fetish scenes and films, becoming a staple of BDSM. Ball gags can be intimidating at first, but after trying it out many couples find it adds an exciting edge to their dom and sub play.

A Beginner’s Guide To Mild Domination

BDSM is a grouping of two different things that are often but not always combined; sensation play and power dynamics. If someone is getting off on the feeling of being restrained and spanked, that’s sensation play. If they get excited at the thought of being overpowered and disciplined, that’s the power dynamic. Domination can be a combination of both, depending on what you and your partner enjoy. Communicate your desires and encourage your partner to do the same – this will help you both establish and understand what you want from the experience.

What Is Pony Play?

Pony play is the kinkiest type of role-play this side of a racecourse paddock.  It often draws on multiple elements of BDSM; from restraints, gags, and harnesses to domination and submission. This form of role-play creates situations that are meant to humiliate and degrade the sub for sexual arousal and pleasure. It has seen an increase in both popularity and public exposure over the last few years with Pony play becoming more common within the porn industry.

A Beginner’s Guide to Taking Sexy Selfies

Sending a sexy photo, if it’s done right, can really spice up your relationship and get you both worked up and excited for your next encounter. There’s no need to completely strip off – be suggestive instead by sucking on a lollipop or sending a picture of your new Lace Up Romper (£29.99, kinky.co.uk). For those of you who aren’t 100% comfortable and confident with sexy snapshots; props, blankets, and filters can be used to cover, crop and change the bits you’re unhappy with. Show as much or as little as you like, just remember to keep it light-hearted and fun!

Thinking of Trying Some Roleplay?

Role-play doesn’t need to include the clichéd ‘French Maid’ or ‘Cops and Robbers’. There’s so much more to explore though, and you really don’t have to feel embarrassed about it. What makes role-playing so attractive and exciting is that you and your partner get to be anyone you want, allowing you to discuss and explore each other’s fantasies.

A Beginner’s Guide To Edging

If your partner cums before you orgasm, then you might already be familiar with edging (also known as “peaking” or “surfing”). The edging technique is essentially orgasm control, in which either you or a partner are brought to the point of orgasm, then stopping just before reaching the peak in order to make the eventual climax strong and more intense. The edging technique can be used either during masturbation or foreplay with a partner, by both sexes, and can be a particularly effective technique in delaying orgasm for guys who suffer from premature ejaculation.

Places to Use a Clitoral Vibrator (Besides Your Clit)

Clitoral vibrators can really do magic for your sex play; they’re great during masturbation as they add an extra element of stimulation, but they’re also a fun form of foreplay. They come in various designs and range in speeds, including small vibrators, large wands, and toys designed to deliver suction-like sensations – so there’s something […]

4 Reasons You Should Try Pussy and Clitoral Pumps

To pump or not to pump? That is the question!

Pumps are external devices that are designed to increase the blood flow to your intimate areas, stimulating instant growth, increasing sensitivity, and delivering superior stimulation. Not sucked in? Here are a few more reasons to convince you: